Thursday, February 13, 2014

Overcoming Low Self-Esteem

Rudyard Kipling said, “If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster and treat those two impostors just the same….You’ll be a man, my son.”  On a spiritual level, this poem could end, “You’ll be a man of God, a man after God’s own heart.”  It could be for men and for women mankind.  Meeting with Triumph and Disaster correctly are a key to spiritual warfare and hearing from God.   Seeing ups and downs as impostors means seeing God as the center of the situation and it closes the door for any argument from the devil, the flesh, or others.  Self-esteem has a healthy balance.

If
Rudyard Kipling
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are others losing theirs and blaming it on you;
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for the doubting too:
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or, being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, not talk too wise;

If you can dream---and not make dreams your master;
If you can think---and not make thoughts your aim,
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two imposters just the same:
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build’em up with worn-out tools;

If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings,
And never breathe a word about your loss:
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on!”

If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings---nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much:
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it.
And---which is more---you’ll be a Man, my son!